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“Can You Help Me Give a Sh*t? is a game-changer in education, pushing for a shift towards real engagement and connection in teaching. It underscores the importance of tailoring learning to students’ interests and encouraging self-expression, making it a must-read amid the complexities of teen education. This book is a call to action for educators to create more personal and impactful learning experiences, offering a blueprint for student empowerment. As a higher education professional, I find it indispensable for anyone looking to genuinely meet students where they are and inspire profound growth.”
Glenn Smith, Assistant Director, Berkley Achievement Scholarship Program at NYU Stern School of Business.
“One of the most refreshing reads on an essential topic. The science of the what, why, and how are all present in fitting and digestible doses, but student voices are front and center. Listening deeply is the first step to tailoring effective solutions for any audience. This book demonstrates the practical and meaningful solutions that arise when researchers honor lived experience.”
– Leah Mazzola, PhD, PCC, BCC, Founder/CEO & Director of Education, Youth Coaching Institute
“How do we foster ‘a desire to care’ when teens don’t see relevance in what they’re being asked to do? Igniting teen motivation is a big issue for adult development, life, and career success. Becca and Grace tackle this topic head-on. This book is a rich and honest depiction of what teens are truly experiencing and why they don’t give a shit. It honors their voices and stories, something that’s sorely missing in other literature and reports. For me, the best takeaways are that we need to be co-pilots in supporting teens to find their own motivation instead of the drivers trying to motivate them. And, as parents and educators, we need to watch and listen to teens more and tell them what to do less. This will help them reach sustained motivation.”
Sarabeth Berk Bickerton, PhD, Keynote speaker and author of More Than My Title
“We all want to feel like we’re uniquely making some impact in the life that we’re living. Unfortunately, we sometimes neglect this drive in teens. This important book helps you understand more about what’s going on with the motivations, behaviors, and frustrations of teens in school and how to help them feel like they matter.”
Scott Barry Kaufman, PhD, Cognitive scientist, author, and host of top-rated “The Psychology Podcast”
“Can You Help Me Give a Sh*t? provides a rare view into the experience of being a teen by letting us hear from students rather than just about them. We learn about the importance of being heard, seen, cared about, and understood through stories and interviews that illustrate how parents, teachers, and peers can affect teens’ motivation and, ultimately, their safe passage into adulthood. As former head of People Development at Google, I see great value in helping young people develop the ability to understand and catalyze their own motivation. I have no doubt this will help them land and excel more smoothly in their careers.”
Karen May, PhD, Advisor/Coach and Former VP of People Development, Google
“As an educator and an executive functioning coach for over 33 years, I work intensively with young people and their parents on a daily basis. Neurodivergent learners have their own set of challenges and obstacles. This must-read book makes it easy to empathize with so many teens and young adults who find it hard or impossible to stay motivated in school, and what parents and educators of all types can do to help them. I highly recommend it!”
Jared Kallen, M.S. Ed, Founder and Director of Action Pact Coaching
About the authors
Becca Block
For two decades, Becca Block has dedicated herself to researching and assisting students across different capacities. Beginning as an academic tutor following her undergraduate studies, she has progressed to roles as a Graduate Teaching Assistant, and a Professor, specializing in teaching writing to undergraduate students. Recently, she has delved into research and design within non-profit organizations focused on K-12 education. Additionally, Becca is a co-founder of Phare, LLC, an organization that aims to provide coaching and training to teenagers, parents, and high schools. She is also the proud parent of two energetic sons.
Grace Edwards
Grace is a native-born “Marylander” who is currently pursuing her undergraduate degree at the University of Pennsylvania in a Bachelor’s of Arts in Health and Societies, with a concentration in Race, Gender, and Health, and minoring in Journalism. Upon finishing her undergrad, she aims to pursue a career within the medical and healthcare field. Furthermore, she aspires to persist in narrative crafting through extensive content, delving into the intricacies of human socialization and relationships. Ultimately, her aim is to merge these passions within the realms of medicine and healthcare.